How to Use in Therapy
 
Domination Systems deepens relational understanding in therapy by exploring two areas that often intersect with intimate partner abuse.
 
First, it recognizes that gender role socialization influences how individuals understand themselves and relate to others. When socialization limits survivors’ sense of what they are capable of or entitled to, it can increase vulnerability to those who seek to dominate or control them.
 
Second, experiences of other forms of trauma shape survivors’ self-concept, belief in themselves, and sense of agency. Research on Adverse Childhood Experiences (ACEs) documents how trauma impacts perceived options as well as long-term emotional and physical well-being.
 
Gender Socialization guides survivors in recognizing how both positive and negative messages have shaped their identities. This opens the door to discussions about what they value and appreciate, as well as what they may want to reconsider or change.
 
Hierarchies connects survivors’ Own Your Story insights regarding why their partners harm them to broader cultural beliefs that permit domination and oppression. These patterns may include personal dynamics related to gender or physical ability, as well as broader forms of oppression related to race, class, organizational culture, and cultural or political systems. Therapists may find this useful in helping survivors understand how experiences of trauma and oppression can intersect, and how one form of vulnerability may increase susceptibility to others.
 
Domination Systems materials support survivors in understanding how socialization and trauma shape their sense of self and perceived options, strengthening clarity, agency, and informed decision-making.