Resources for Survivors 

You may download Safety Suggestions and Safety Planning for your use. In addition, safety planning resources can be found on the intimate partner abuse organization websites below.

domesticshelters.org has many resources plus you can find local U.S. intimate partner abuse programs: https://www.domesticshelters.org/

National Coalition Against Domestic Violence: https://ncadv.org/

This checklist contains twelve forms of coercive control. They are named for how they affect victims.

https://drive.google.com/drive/u/1/my-drive

This summary outlines red, yellow, and green flags to watch for in relationships. While it’s particularly helpful when dating, you can also use it to reflect on any kind of relationship.

“I want to be in a relationship where you telling me you love me is just a ceremonious validation of what you already show me.” Steve Mariboli

https://drive.google.com/file/d/1fVIc-IxIdvbrQ_x6zM7_P9Bq31-pPGV1/view?usp=sharing

When a partner abuses you, they betray your love and caring for them.

I recommend LaDonna Carey as a betrayal trauma therapist, working with survivors and couples on partner abuse, affairs, financial abuse, or any other betrayal issue.

She offers a workbook, therapy, and a wealth of other resources at https://www.ladonnacarey.com/

Lanaville is a clinical/forensic psychologist who primarily works in family courts in Intimate Partner Violence and Coercive Control cases. She has worked in law enforcement and with incarcerated inmates and is now in private practice working with victims/survivors in courts. Dawn also conducts psychological evaluations that help victims/survivors and, in some cases, their children.
Website: http://www.albepsychcfs.com/
Email: apcfs.info@pm.me

National Association of Mental Illness (NAMI): https://www.nami.org/

988 Suicide crisis line: https://988lifeline.org/